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TURTLE CROSSING THE ROAD

Published February 15, 2016 by Nan Mykel

 

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Turtle, do you know that you cause

someone like me to cringe and pause

in my journey to work or play

on a formerly happy day?

In my mirror I cannot spot

if you made it or did you not.

Do you really care if you should meet

your end of days while in the street?

Of course he does, I  scold myself,

chastened by my timid stealth.

Turn around and go back, I tout,

and help the little feller out.

But no, I go and never know.

Why should I worry myself so?

Down deep I see that he is me,

both risking death if we are free.

Dream On

Published February 14, 2016 by Nan Mykel

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DREAM ON –   PART 2

Quoting Ralph Waldo Emerson:

“Dreams have a poetic integrity and truth. This limbo and dust-hole of thought is presided over by a certain reason, too. Their extravagance from nature is yet within a higher nature. They seem to suggest an abundance and fluency of thought not famliar to the waking experience…A skillful man reads his dreams for his self-knowledge; yet not the details, but the quality. What part does he play in them–a cheerful, manly part, or a poor-driveling part? However monstrous and grotesque their apparitions, they have a substantial truth.”*

*(Emerson appears to be a take-it-on-the-chin-and-grin man.) I would not give him a passing grade for sensitivity or empathy, but just thought I’d share this one among many I will be sharing in the future.

Quote from Timothy D. Wilson

Published February 12, 2016 by Nan Mykel

Our Shadow SelvesTim Wlson

The conflict between the need to be accurate and the desire to feel good about ourselves is one of the major battlegrounds of the self, and how this battle is waged and how it is won are central determinants  of who we are and how we feel about  ourselves.

A dose of self-deception can be helpful as well, enabling us to maintain a positive view of ourselves and an optimistic view of the future.  (Strangers to Ourselves, p 39)

Privilege

Published February 11, 2016 by Nan Mykel

AB's avatarPerspectives on Life, the Universe and Everything

carriage arrived
on a busy day
everyone waited patiently
except time 

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Stephen Levine Quote

Published February 11, 2016 by Nan Mykel

        Stephen Levine died January 17, 2016, his birthday.

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“Listen to your life song among the insights that hum through the mind.”

From One Year to Live              Photo from Wikipedia

Dream On

Published February 10, 2016 by Nan Mykel

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Obviously, perhaps, this is a kind of tag-along page. I did want to tell you, however, that my most favorite book on dreams is one on content analysis of dreams:  The Individual and His Dreams, by Calvin Hall and Vernon Nordby, c.1972. I do wish they’d bring out a newer edition because the type is so small, but I was able to get 3 copies from Amazon. The appeal of this book is that the authors have studied  over 50,000 dreams and analyzed them for content. “To analyze means  to break down a verbal report into its constituent elements and count the number of times that each element occurs.”  (For instance, success and failure, good fortune and misfortune,  aggressive vs. friendly interactons between the sexes,  animals,  the sex of stranger dream figures, body parts, the importance of  dream series and much much more, thus enabling one to compare his/her own dreams with a sampling of the population of dreamers.)

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How to Remember Your Dreams

  1. Accept and value each dream, no matter how foolish or fragmentary it may seem.
  2. Before retiring, plan to remember whatever dreams come to you,. Place a pad and pencil within easy reach of your sleeping spot.
  3. If you have trouble recalling  your dreams, plan a time when you can spontaneouslyawaken and be unhurried.
  4. When you waken, lie still and allow the dream images to flow back into your mind. If no images come, free associate or allow image to come. Be aware of thoughts upon awakening.
  5. When dream recall is complete in one body position, move gently into other sleeping positions to see if that triggers additional recxall. Record your dreams immediately6, whenever they come to you.
  6. Regardless of the method used to collect your dreams–by writing or taping–make the first record with your  eyes closed.
  7. Make your records in the order that you recall your dreams. Exception: Make note of unique verbal  expressions, poems, names, unusual phrases first, regardless of order,
  8. Select titles for your dream stores to help recall them later and toidentify their unique aspects.
  9. Share your dreams with a friend or others.
  10. Reading earlier dreams you have recorded is another excellent dream stimulator.  (Adapted from Patricia Garfield’s Creative Dreaming.

Possible Functions of Dreams

  1. Wish fulfillment (dreaming of food when you’re on a diet).
  2. Subliminal message (finding missing wallet under car seat when was in a hurry).
  3. Portrayal of inner conflict (Can’t unlock door to girlfriend’s house)
  4. Anniversary reminder (dream of a death a year later)
  5. Prospective (likely results of proceeding on path of action)-Probable future results
  6. Picture-Thinking (ideas, problem-solving in symbolic form)
  7. Traumatic replay of horrific events-not yet fully understood
  8. Compensatory (what is needed for wholeness; another side of personality)
  9. Reflects ego state (roof falling in)
  10. Making dreamer aware of emotions not fully experienced
  11. Vehicle for unexplainable phenomenon

  Henri BergsonPart One

According to Henri Bergson, “Stored memories aspire to the light, but do not even try to rise to it…they know that I, as a living and acting being, have something else to do…but suppose that I am asleep. Then these memories…have raised the trap door which has kept them beneath the floor of consciousness, arise from the depths; they rise, they move, they perform in the night of unconsciousness a great danse macabre. They rush together to the door which has been left ajar.”

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DOROTHY IN BLOGLAND

Published February 7, 2016 by Nan Mykel

For Open Link night at http://dversepoets.com/2016/02/18/open-link-night-166/

AliceDOROTHY IN BLOGLAND?

No no, Newbie!

                 It’s ALICE.

ALICE IN BLOGLAND!  

Oh, write. But does

Alice have a

wizard?  Well

no, but there’s a

Cheshire Cat.

<floridaborne> has a

cat. What else?

Alice has a Jabberwok.

Well, <dVersepoets> and

<Katiemiafrederick>

seem to have one,

two.

Does Alice have a

narcissist? Why would 

anyone want one

of those?

<Notesfromanarcissist> to himself

has 51,626 followers at

his blog. Or do you

think he’s just

bragging?

 But Alice has

millions of followers,

in books.

 Well, my name isn’t

 Dorothy OR Alice,

but i THINK i have

21 FOLLOWERS!

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WHO HE? Short Story

Published February 6, 2016 by Nan Mykel

When Trish entered the Front Room, Cassie was already in the booth, waiting. Both smiled broadly, glad to see each other after being separated on this, their first day of classes as freshmen roommates. Being from the same small town in Ohio, they felt a special kind of comaraderie—or safety—in the others’ company. Both had been assigned to classes taught by Professor Johnson, who was listed as teaching both English Literature and Journalism. With Johnson being such a common name, they had wondered if they were going to have the same professor, but Cassie hadn’t thought there was much in common between the two academic subjects, and decided that they would be experiencing two entirely different professors.
The Journalism 101 class was already full by the time Trish tried to register for it. Cassie had already enrolled several minutes before the cut-off, and was feeling fortunate until she realized Journalism was at 8 a.m. Today they grabbed a late lunch from the cafeteria line and got down to it. “Well?” Cassie asked, “are they the same? How old was your professor?”
Trish frowned and rubbed her brow, thinking. “It’s hard to say….35? 45? Maybe 50.”
Cassie sighed as though in disbelief. “Surely there’s a difference between a 50-year old man and one 35! In what way did he seem young and what made him seem old?”
“His dress, for one thing. He wore blue jeans and a collarless shirt, and loafers.”
Cassie paused to drink her tea, and then nodded. “So did mine. Maybe there’s a kind of dress code the first day, to make the students feel more comfortable.…..”What about his hair? Did he still have it?”
Trish seemed to smile inwardly. “Does he ever! He has a full head of gorgeous dark hair with just a touch of silver in it when up close.”
Cassie stirred her tea and asked, “You were up close to him?”
Another secret smile. “Just when he walked back and forth among the students, and stopped to make a point.”
“His voice–was it easy to hear him?”
“Oh yes! He would expound in a loud voice when he strode back and forth in front of the class, often looking fervently at the ceiling like he was communing with God, or trying to. He really gets excited about the early civilizations, and knows Greek. Now that I think of it, maybe he was trying to communicate with the whole bunch of Greek gods.”
Cassie laughed. “Sounds like a winner…How do you know he ‘knows Greek’?”
“He told us, and said a few words in what I guessed was Greek.”
“So it sounds like your Dr. Johnson is an enthusiastic hippie type. He must love his subject.”
Trish nodded vehemently. “‘you got it. Maybe that’s what makes him seem 35.” She paused, playing with her spoon and fork before asking, “So what’s your Dr. Johnson like?”
Cassie closed her eyes in order to re-vision her journalism professor. ”He’s got all his hair all right, but I didn’t notice any silver streaks. And he seems to blow hot and cold. One minute he is trying to get the class enthusiastic about journalism and the next he moans about the loss of the “milk of human kindness,” and about how journalism is being straight-jacketed by the corporations. He kind of slumps in his chair while listening to the students, then jumps up and begins pacing back and forth. By the way, mine is about six-foot tall. How about yours?”
Trish said “He’s tall, too.”
“Well, is he good-looking?”
Cassie shrugged. “Yeah, if you like men who work out a lot. His muscles seem weird on a college professor.”
“Any tattoos?…Sorry, just joking. What color are his eyes?”
“Oh yes, I fogot. When he gets these ideas that make him stand up straight and begin to walk back and forth he opens his eyes real wide and you can see the whites of his eyes. Kinda spooky. And he has very dark eyes that scan the class a lot, as though he’s counting the students or looking for one who didn’t show.” Cassie smiled at her own words.
“Does he have a cough?”
“A cough?” Cassie puzzled.
“Yeah, my Johnson does. Like he smoked.”
“I didn’t notice. There was too much discussion going on in class.”
Trish perked up, curious. “Like what?”
“Oh, you know; liberal stuff.” Cassie paused. “I think we have to face it; they must be different Johnsons.”
Trish nodded skeptically. “Yeah, but how strange the university has two African American professors with the same name!”

 

Eisley Quote

Published February 3, 2016 by Nan Mykel

black_background_with_stars_557408Altho the subject matter may be sobering, the writing is so beautiful that I love it, from The Invisible Pyramid: 

“Beginning on some winter night the snow will fall steadily for a thousand years and hush in its falling the spore cities whose seed has flown. The delicate traceries of the frost will slowly dim the glass in observatories and all will be as it had been before the virus wakened. The long trail of Halley’s comet, once more returning will pass like a ghostly matchflame over the unwatched grave of the cities. This has always been their end, whether in the snow or in the sand.”

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