Monthly Archives: January 2017

ONE PARAGRAPH PER CHAPTER – Chapter 11: The Sexual Bond

From FALLOUT: A Survivor Talks to Incest Offenders (and Others) by moi: Having been both classically and operantly conditioned to become aroused by deviant sex is a secret that hangs heavy on the heart of many victims of incest. Opening themselves … Continue reading

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ONE PARAGRAPH PER CHAPTER – Chapter 10: My Trauma Bond

From FALLOUT: A Survivor Talks to Incest Offenders (and Others) by moi: Broken boundaries, loss of boundaries, incorporation, intrusion, invasiveness, the edges of my self were in tatters. My defenses were down. I was haunted. Not only was Daddy the master … Continue reading

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MORALITY REFLECTION – Culture

FROM STEVEN PINKER’S  The Blank Slate: p. 273 If only one person in the world held down a terrified, struggling, screaming little girl, cut off her genitals with a septic blade, and sewed her back up, leaving only a tiny … Continue reading

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ONE PARAGRAPH PER CHAPTER – Chapter 9: The Trauma Bond

From FALLOUT: A Survivor Talks to Incest Offenders (and Others) by moi: If you, the reader, are a survivor, I invite you to reflect as you read this book, whether or not you are journaling. If you were abused, take a … Continue reading

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ONE PARAGRAPH PER CHAPTER – Chapter 8: A Metaphor

From FALLOUT: A Survivor Talks to Incest Offenders (and Others) by moi: Many”normal” men can can admire a nubile child but keep a safe distance. They can stay away from the quicksand of losing control. The quicksand is alive and bubbling, … Continue reading

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ONE PARAGRAPH PER CHAPTER – Chapter 7: Will I Do It Again?

From FALLOUT: A Survivor Talks to Incest Offenders (and Others) by moi: If the above list reminds you of any vulnerabilities to reoffending,  then you have a “growing edge” that you can work on.  Ask yourself, honestly, whether you want to … Continue reading

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BLOWING SOAP BUBBLES

BLOWING SOAP BUBBLES So lovely, so fragile what more can one say?

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