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A Gift for Your Incest Abuser

A few minutes ago while still woolgathering in bed, I realized that only incest victims were being told about my first book, which was really addressed to incest offenders.  So, I thought I’d let incest victims know about the perfect … Continue reading

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ONE PARAGRAPH PER CHAPTER – Chapter 4: Treatment

  The field of sex offender treatment is still young and was in its infancy in 1986, when our program began. As staff we diligently read master pockets and took lengthy histories, searching for etiological clues that might suggest the … Continue reading

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From Fallout: A Survivor Talks to Incest  Offenders (And Others), by moi. Four major factors that contribute to molestation have been proposed and widely accepted (Finkelhor, 1984). They are sexual arousal, preferring children emotionally, being blocked from an adult relationship, … Continue reading

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A published author!

It has been more than a year since I published my first book, FALLOUT: A Survivor Talks to Incest Offenders (And Others), plus her dream journal and drawings. Watch my April, 2015 author interview on Kaleidoscope: And don’t forget to check … Continue reading

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I’ll tell you my response now, since first, I don’t want to upset people and second,  it was written 20 years ago and he didn’t know any better, Trouble is, I got the book in the library, so his unenlightenment … Continue reading

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Gestalt Goodbye to My Abuser

(Gestalt Goodbyes include appreciatons,  resentments, and regrets.) Things that I appreciated  about you, Daddy:  your encouraging me to write creatively; your encouraging me to draw; your teaching me and coaching me to play tennis; your intelligence and lively mind; your … Continue reading

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Were You Affected by Incest? I Was…

If you’re 3 out of 4 females following or reading this  blog, then I’m happy that incest did not touch you.  The stats for males are less clear, perhaps because they fear it reflects on their manhood. If you were … Continue reading

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