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A CONSPIRACY? NO

Published June 22, 2023 by Nan Mykel

 

Take a look at this, then consider:

…In response to Jill Biden presenting Rueda* with the ‘International Women of Courage’ award, social media users have accused the First Lady of ‘encouraging the diminishment of women’ and ‘erasing women’.

Arkansas Governor Sarah Huckabee Sanders, who has been a vocal critic of President Joe Biden, tweeted: ‘It’s International Women’s Day – a good time to remember that the Democrats can’t even tell you what a woman is.”

From <https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11839053/Row-erupts-online-Jill-Biden-gives-transgender-woman-Argentina-Women-Courage-award.html>

*Ruenda is Alba Rueda,  is a transgender woman who the government of Argentina earlier this year named as its first-ever global envoy for LGBTQ.  She was one of  eleven women who received the International Women of Courage award from Jill Biden.

In the hope that by looking rationally at heated statements of both parties we might let a little fresh air in and raise the level of logic...So. to start with this one:

1. Is a man who identifies himself as a woman and embraces their woman-ness really seeking to diminish and eradicate women?  That’s really turning logic upside down.

2. Where does the whiff of automatic competitiveness lie?

3. Rueda is only one of 11 women honored by Jill Biden.  What are the odds Jill–a woman–doesn’t know what a woman is?

4. With a bachelor’s degree. two Masters degrees and a PhD. in Education Jill Bidden s not likely to be guilty of Sarah Huckabee’s accusation.

5. If they were talking about a woman who wanted to become a man it might be borderline rational, but by joining womanhood how could that mean “diminish women”?

6. Isn’t Huckabee a member of that group who want to force all pregnant women to hatch their babies, whether wanted or not?  Talk about diminishing women!

SORRY for backsliding into negativity, and I’ll continue to leave the real crazies alone (not giving them their PR),  but maybe turning the light of logic on some of the statements might be useful, even once in a million?

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A JOURNAL ENTRY 1-10-98

Searching for my voice- Crumpled pages lie beside my typewriter. The notion lingers that  if I can just find the right voice, the right cross between irony and sorrow with a little joie de vivre thrown in, then the words would spew out (too much like a volcano? Vomit?)…spill out onto the fresh white pages.

Still looking….

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The Detroit Free Press explains that during examination of medical experts, LaSata became angry after testimony that by banning standard second-trimester procedures for abortion, the Michigan legislature would be putting women into painful and dangerous scenarios. Sen. LaSata’s response was the kind of Jesus empathizing you might expect from a good Christian like LaSata: “Of course it should be hard! And the procedure should be painful! And you should allow God to take over!! And you should deliver that baby!”

From <https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2019/5/15/1857887/-Michigan-Republican-says-that-abortion-procedures-should-be-painful-and-God-should-take-over>

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SONG WITHOUT A MELODY

Published June 15, 2023 by Nan Mykel

 

GONE SONG

Oh there’s going over the hill, Bill,

also going over the edge.

And then there’s gone, gone, gone.

Their memory of you is at thirty-two

or whenever they knew you last.

Hey hey.

It’s great to be poor

–yet let in the door–

 

but there’s a big traffic jam

at the eye of the needle.

So I’ll just sing this song and

toddle  along.  Gone, I’m gone.

 

Still the poor garbage man lingers,

While the auctioneer jingles

coins in his pocket and bangs

down  his gavel, shouting

“Going, Going, Gone!”

Ya think?  Hey hey.

nan

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GUN STATS

Diane Ravitch is clever, I surmise, in making it difficult for others to reblog her posts. Her site is one of the most valued sites for several topics, and it seems she’d prefer you to visit her site rather than read it on a reblog.  (Can’t blame her). At least that’s my guess, given all the difficulties I run into for even trying.  So, you need to go to her site and see her gun chart, yesterday.  It’s mind-blowing, and credited if you can understand from where.  Look at the lives the gun people would have on their conscience if they had one.

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SOUTHERN BAPTIST MISOGYNISTS

Just in case you missed it: The Southern Baptists are kicking female ministers out of the church, and apparently their congregations with them.  So what else is new from the religious right (In addition to forced birth?)  Mama mia!

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BITTERNESS DOESN’T BECOME ME, EITHER,  but neither does moral blindness.

 

I USED TO LIVE IN MIAMI

Published June 13, 2023 by Nan Mykel

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I USED TO LIVE IN MIAMI

I worked in the main library near Biscayne Bay.

I graduated from Miami Jackson High School,, took art and was on the Globe staff.  I took Radio Speech and was a dee jay some Saturdays, courtesy of Mr. Fisher our teacher.  At one point I got free lunch while a student there. Mrs. Halliday was my homeroom teacher.

The thought of Miami this day, Tuesday, is saddening.  I think of the lemmings…the lemmings and of the Pied Piper of Hamlin.

And then I thought of those dangerous high wire acts, some of which proved deadly.  And then I felt like praying.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

JOY JOY JOY

Published June 12, 2023 by Nan Mykel

JOY JOY JOY!

The children lost in the Colombian jungle have been found alive after forty days. ( Wasn’t there something in the Bible about 40 days?  Oh yes:  “40 days is mentioned in the Bible more than 20 times– some in the Old Testament and some in the New Testament”   Per crosswalk.com)

When reading the remarkable  news about the brave 13-year-old elder sister, Lesley,  who managed to keep herself and all three younger siblings alive (ages 9, 4 and 11 months), one comes to appreciate the wisdom of her deceased mother–killed in the plane crash–for knowing and conveying the information about which fruits and seeds in the jungle could be eaten and which looked similar but were deadly.

Just after the plane crashed deep in the Colombian jungle and with all the adults aboard killed including their mother,*  the children had to walk away, but wisely took the supply of farina from the wreckage.

After the fariña ran out, they began to eat seeds and fruit, even the 11-month old sibling, who had a first birthday during the–what should we call it–incident, escape, journey, traumatic event?

An indigenous tribesman found the children on the fortieth day of the search, upon hearing the baby’s cries from the jungle growth. The military, civilians and native tribespersons had continued the search for days, until the children were found alive but weak and tired.  The president of Colombia, Gustavo Petro, became personally involved in rescue efforts and appears to have orchestrated the continuous search.

*As a postscript, Lesley was later quoted as saying her mother had lived four days, and urged them to leave.  What a heartbreak.

From <https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2023/6/11/2174709/-After-Plane-Crashes-In-The-Amazon-13-Year-Old-Keeps-Siblings-And-1-Year-Old-Alive-For-Forty-Days> Plus many other sources via Google.

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CURIOUS ABOUT….

What kind of leader  Gustavo Petro is, I found that his country, Colombia, is labeled a “flawed democracy” by The Economist Democracy Index.The definition and ratings come from  The Economist Democracy Index, as reported on Wikipedia, and  is widely cited in the international press as well as in peer-reviewed academic journals.

More curious about how other countries are seen worldwide, I found flawed democracies defined on Wikipedia as nations where elections are fair and free and basic civil liberties are honored but may have issues.  “These nations can have significant faults in other democratic aspects, including underdeveloped political culture, low levels of participation in politics, and issues in the functioning of governance.[”  [I bet issues in the functioning of government got us], because in the most recent index, the US was listed as a flawed democracy, along with  Colombia and 46 other countries or territories in the world.

Figuring into the ranking overall includes

  1. “Whether national elections are free and fair”;
  2. “The security of voters“;
  3. “The influence of foreign powers on government”;
  4. “The capability of the civil servants to implement policies”.

According to the index, in 2022 of 167 countries or territories in the world there were 24 Full Democracies. . In descending order, they are:

Norway, New Zealand, Iceland, Sweden, Finland, Denmark, Switzerland, Ireland, Netherlands, Taiwan, Uruguay, Canada,  Luxembourg, Germany, Australia, Japan, Costa Rica, United Kingdom,Chile, Austria, Mauritius, France, Spain, South Korea

Hats off to them all.

From <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Economist_Democracy_Index> and others.

The site makes a great knowledgeable and historical read.

ALL THE RAGE?

Published June 11, 2023 by Nan Mykel

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

MUST BE!…Chandeliers for the bathroom!

Something’s peeking up behind the shower curtains.  No comment, just a sigh.

Guess who said this in 2016:

“In my administration I’m going to enforce all laws concerning the protection of classified information. No one will be above the law.”  [Okey dokey]

Image fielded by  Maureen Dowd’s opinion piece in the nytimes on the 10th

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MEDICARE FOR ALL?

YOU BET!

Maybe that will result in some significant  common sense changes in the wealthiest tax brackets.  About time!  The United States (that’s us)  is wringing its hair (joke) over the Debt ceiling.  Wouldn’t it be nice to  lower the ceiling a tad by taxing the super million-billionaires?

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The more I get to know people, the more I realize why Noah let only animals on the boat.

From <https://mail.google.com/

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Recommended goldie oldie  [not a sponsored thing]:

Between Parent and Child by  Haim  Ginott:

Between Parent and Child is a book written for parents to help them become more effective in raising their children, starting with improved communication. Haim Ginott describes how empathy can be combined with discipline in this straightforward book.

When my first baby was born I had only read Spock. Then I found this one and recommend it even to non-parents.  It would have been so nice if my parents had read it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

WHAT HAPPENED TO GESTALT THERAPY?

Published June 10, 2023 by Nan Mykel

The only time someone has really argued with any of my wide-ranging posts was when I wrote about earlier good and truthful books on child rearing.  One father wrote telling me how his parents disciplined him (the belt) and that he turned out okay.

I recall trying to help a child molester see how molestation was damaging for the child and almost feeling sorry for the molester when he said, “I was molested and it didn’t hurt me,” whereupon I stared at him and said nothing, the truth ringing without words from the four walls of my office in the prison for old men.  (After I retired I wrote a book highlighting the damaging effects, but did no drum beating and it got no mileage).

And what happened to TA’s Pig Parent?   I just woke up with this memory and must put it aside for now because I’ve been spending most of my time blogging already and am trying to re-do a novel. I can’t deal in depth today, but want to reaffirm that some of the best resources are in the past (alright, my past). I’ll share my favorites next time I post on the topic.

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A BIG PLUS:  Scrounge around and you can find something about the Minnesota-based health system Allina announcing it would stop denying care to patients with unpaid bills as it re-examines its policy, and…(Sorry, I’m not clever at avoiding the white box punishment from our best source to credit.)

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WHAT ABOUT THE MEAT?  I read that residents of the big apple will have to separate their food waste from regular  trash  by next year. With all their high-rises, I wonder where they’ll put it.  In the park?  Don’t get me wrong–I think the ruling is glorious, but as a condo owner with no yard who has a friend who takes my compost to her community garden, I just wonder.  Maybe Central Park will become a dedicated conservation area or place for community gardens?  But oh-oh…my compost collector friend will accept no meat products.  What about those?  Or will Central Park become a big compost container?  Might the fumes reach the spiffy high rise suites, if meat is included?

 

 

WHAT DO YOU SEE?

Published June 10, 2023 by Nan Mykel

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

WHAT DO YOU SEE AND WHAT DO YOU FEEL?

The above image is borrowed from

Nguyễn Thị Phương Trâm

and I have no claim to it, but thought it might be a useful tool for self reflection, bias and/or projection.

Do you like the photo or not?

If you have conflicting  emotions, does knowing that the photo is associated with Vietnam do anything to your perception?

How about if you discovered one or all of the men were subsequently  killed in combat?

How about if you knew their ages?

If you knew how many they killed or tried to kill?

If you knew who wrote them letters from home?

Etc., etc., etc…

 

I for one find the photo disconcerting, horrifying, sad and a little nauseating.

I cannot see it as endearing, although their family might, especially if they died in battle.

I cannot see it proudly, as a fiancee or mother might.

The longer I think about it, the sadder I feel.

 

….How would you see it if you were a MAGA; an NRA member; a Quaker; a Red Cross Worker; a Christian Nationalist; a North Vietnamese, etc.?  Would a woman see it differently than a man?

How would Trump see it?

‘Magical’ wildlife-rich rainforest being planted in Devon

Published June 10, 2023 by Nan Mykel

Incredible; such uplifting news! Thanks, Ned

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Thirty-hectare site above Dart valley will include lichens and ferns and could take a century to reach maturity

By Steven Morris

The temperate rainforest in Devon will sit within a larger 50-hectare site. Photograph: Strutt & Parker

A temperate rainforest, a magical, wildlife-rich place of mosses, lichens and ferns, is being planted on the slopes above a West Country river, tumbling almost to the doors of one of the UK’s most green-minded towns.

Tree species including sessile oak, birch, rowan, holly, alder, willow and hazel are to be introduced to the 30-hectare (74-acre) site above the Dart valley and close to the Devon town of Totnes in the south of England.

In time, the habitat, also known as Atlantic or Celtic rainforest, should become home to mammals such as stoats and pine martens, and threatened birds including wood warblers, redstarts, and pied flycatchers.

Wet conditions should support an abundance of mosses, liverworts…

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IT FEELS FAKE

Published June 9, 2023 by Nan Mykel

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

IT FEELS FAKE

When someone dies I do not

Offer a note of care, because

The loss is so great that words

On paper feel like an insult.

 

And there’s the problem of who to

Send it to? Wife, mother or child?

I feel like I should

Send it to me because I care.

 

Losing someone to another dimension

Leaves me speechless.  “Where  are they,”

The child in me frets, unable to

Send a drop of water to the fire..

 

When you die you’ll never get a

card from me. Who needs it the most?

And how pitiful the proper

response from me would be?

 

I know I don’t play by the rules.

Either cruelly I cannot be bothered

Or I care too much.

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I know, I know: Knowing that someone departed is missed and remembered should make the chief loser feel better, but that’s so miniscule, and depending upon their style of mourning, it may throw them back into despair.  Am I just making excuses or do I doubt my own ability to express what I mean?

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REPARATIONS FOR SLAVERY?

New York is considering creating a commission to consider  reparations for the lingering negative effects of slavery.  How could I be against that? Doesn’t reparation for the misdeeds of our ancestors take away time and money from current  injustices to the slaves’ offspring?  But hush….don’t whisper that in front of the children….in public schools, or at universities in some states. My public access television dried up on the vine, but hopefully A.I. hasn’t invaded my Word Press blog yet.

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GUESS WHAT!  GOOD NEWS!

The Supreme Court just ruled  in support of parts of the Voting Rights Act of 1965 against the State of Alabama.  Guess what!  Clarence Thomas strongly dissented.  Someone needs to clarify the double-think being used today to turn words and meanings inside out.

MEMORY LANE AND BACK AGAIN

Published June 8, 2023 by Nan Mykel

HIGH SCHOOL IN THE FIRST GRADE

When I first went to school it was at Berryhill  High School in Charlotte, North Carolina, and I rode a yellow school bus with other students of all ages.  My teacher was Mrs. Stockwell, and I remember that her husband would come to the window and talk with her every now and then.  Was he really a policeman or is that just my imagination?

Best (and only) friend was Sally Watson, who lived down the road and was with me in first grade.  I don’t know who called me “teacher’s pet,” but I know Sally must have been, too.  It was a good experience and the school put on a musical program in which we first graders sang You Are My Sunshine,  which had just been  published.

There were no litter boxes in the classroom for pooping in, and I wasn’t arrested for singing “Or Would You Rather Be a Queer,” ( Instead of a “Mare.”).  I remember the teacher explaining to another that I didn’t know what I was saying, which was true and remained true for several more years.

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I WENT TO A STUDENT MEETING AT O.U. RECENTLY,  to which townies were invited, as a full-blown adult.

It was the first time since Public Access closed.

I wasn’t aware of the Community Rights Organizing activities and that my town’s City Council was meeting to decide whether to buck the state legislature, which was moving toward cutting off funding for universities who fail to follow these dictates::

OHIO SENATE BILL 83

The Higher Education Destruction Act, (someone has named it.)

It bans required DEI (diversity, equity, inclusion) training and programs

Bans groups, clubs, organizations based on race, sex, sexuality, gender identity, possibly athletic teams and dorms

Bans programs, policies, practices based on race, sex, sexuality, gender identity

Restricts discussions about race, sex, sexuality, gender identity, “controversial” topics, including climate change

Bans public statements and positions about “controversial” topics

Bans academic relationships with China

Bans employee strikes (faculty, staff, students)

SURELY IT COULDN”T PASS?  [It has already done so, and been signed]

Can’t be sure of anything these days, and I don’t need to remind you of the current travesties. The meeting I attended was at O.U., sure to be outlawed.

Today, reading the bill itself is, I fear, above my ken, but I do see that it denies any student in a state institution of higher education of the freedom to protest.  Is it too much to assume that it might be headed for the Supreme Court, at least to weigh on its conscience if ignored?

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