My daughter and I visited a family cemetery in Marietta, Georgia on January 21, 2002 and unexpectedly came across a tasteful arbor leading to a sheltering tree from which dangled fragile Christmas ornaments and wind chimes. Under it was a small flower garden and bench, and beside that a small grave with two stuffed animals and a few other childhood mementos. The gravestone bore the name “Jon Benet Patricia Ramsey.”