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Thank You

Published February 17, 2016 by Nan Mykel

Beautiful and recommended.

Jen Benito's avatarRaising Peanut

IMG_1582A quick update on Jana:  She has another upper respiratory infection!  Just got on meds yesterday so I am hoping for a quick recovery.  She has a horrible cough, infected eyes and is very congested.  She is not sleeping very well at night, however none of that stops her from playing with her siblings and trying so hard to figure out this crawling thing 🙂  Recently she started attempting to eat her toes and hates it when I put socks on her feet!

So on to today’s post!  Written by Jana’s Daddy, Juan…you might want to grab a tissue 🙂

IMG_7539 Instantly a Daddy’s Girl!

We will most likely never meet in person but we share one precious gift in common and I wanted to take the time to say Thank You.

Over 1 year ago, you conceived a child and made the decision to give her birth even though you…

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WELCOME TO THE NEIGHBORHOOD

Published February 17, 2016 by Nan Mykel

What are you doing, man? Loitering?

Why? Is this your corner?

Nah, I don’t deal. Just curious, You look so out of it.

I’m meditating.

Mediwhatting?

You know—clearing my mind and focusing on nothingness.

Nothingness—you hungry?

Nah, It’s kind of like free tripping.

You a Hari Kristie?

It’s Hari Krishna and no, I’m not one of those.

Well what are ya?

Just a poor dumb shit with nothing better to do than seek enlightenment.  What are you?

Well, I was looking for a little action.

You do deal! What gang do you run with?

Not!

Well what then?

Oooh  oooh  oooh, stayin’ alive.

You a rapper!  Rap me somethin’.

Nah, I’m just tryin’ to keep from spitting on the sidewalk and getting shot.

They after you?

Not yet. You don’t see me spitting on the sidewalk, do ya?

Well, that’s cool. Black Lives Matter.

I wish.

Yeah… Any protests around here?

You new  or sumpthink?

Yeah – ‘bout a week.

They’s a march on Main  Saturday night.  Legit.

I know—you don’t spit on sidewalks.

You got that right, my man.

Do you think they’d shoot me for meditating?

I dunno. It’d sho’ make CNN if they did.

You start like this:   Ommmmmmmmm….                                                                                                      Nan

Dream On

Published February 14, 2016 by Nan Mykel

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DREAM ON –   PART 2

Quoting Ralph Waldo Emerson:

“Dreams have a poetic integrity and truth. This limbo and dust-hole of thought is presided over by a certain reason, too. Their extravagance from nature is yet within a higher nature. They seem to suggest an abundance and fluency of thought not famliar to the waking experience…A skillful man reads his dreams for his self-knowledge; yet not the details, but the quality. What part does he play in them–a cheerful, manly part, or a poor-driveling part? However monstrous and grotesque their apparitions, they have a substantial truth.”*

*(Emerson appears to be a take-it-on-the-chin-and-grin man.) I would not give him a passing grade for sensitivity or empathy, but just thought I’d share this one among many I will be sharing in the future.

Privilege

Published February 11, 2016 by Nan Mykel

AB's avatarPerspectives on Life, the Universe and Everything

carriage arrived
on a busy day
everyone waited patiently
except time 

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Stephen Levine Quote

Published February 11, 2016 by Nan Mykel

        Stephen Levine died January 17, 2016, his birthday.

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“Listen to your life song among the insights that hum through the mind.”

From One Year to Live              Photo from Wikipedia

Dream On

Published February 10, 2016 by Nan Mykel

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Obviously, perhaps, this is a kind of tag-along page. I did want to tell you, however, that my most favorite book on dreams is one on content analysis of dreams:  The Individual and His Dreams, by Calvin Hall and Vernon Nordby, c.1972. I do wish they’d bring out a newer edition because the type is so small, but I was able to get 3 copies from Amazon. The appeal of this book is that the authors have studied  over 50,000 dreams and analyzed them for content. “To analyze means  to break down a verbal report into its constituent elements and count the number of times that each element occurs.”  (For instance, success and failure, good fortune and misfortune,  aggressive vs. friendly interactons between the sexes,  animals,  the sex of stranger dream figures, body parts, the importance of  dream series and much much more, thus enabling one to compare his/her own dreams with a sampling of the population of dreamers.)

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How to Remember Your Dreams

  1. Accept and value each dream, no matter how foolish or fragmentary it may seem.
  2. Before retiring, plan to remember whatever dreams come to you,. Place a pad and pencil within easy reach of your sleeping spot.
  3. If you have trouble recalling  your dreams, plan a time when you can spontaneouslyawaken and be unhurried.
  4. When you waken, lie still and allow the dream images to flow back into your mind. If no images come, free associate or allow image to come. Be aware of thoughts upon awakening.
  5. When dream recall is complete in one body position, move gently into other sleeping positions to see if that triggers additional recxall. Record your dreams immediately6, whenever they come to you.
  6. Regardless of the method used to collect your dreams–by writing or taping–make the first record with your  eyes closed.
  7. Make your records in the order that you recall your dreams. Exception: Make note of unique verbal  expressions, poems, names, unusual phrases first, regardless of order,
  8. Select titles for your dream stores to help recall them later and toidentify their unique aspects.
  9. Share your dreams with a friend or others.
  10. Reading earlier dreams you have recorded is another excellent dream stimulator.  (Adapted from Patricia Garfield’s Creative Dreaming.

Possible Functions of Dreams

  1. Wish fulfillment (dreaming of food when you’re on a diet).
  2. Subliminal message (finding missing wallet under car seat when was in a hurry).
  3. Portrayal of inner conflict (Can’t unlock door to girlfriend’s house)
  4. Anniversary reminder (dream of a death a year later)
  5. Prospective (likely results of proceeding on path of action)-Probable future results
  6. Picture-Thinking (ideas, problem-solving in symbolic form)
  7. Traumatic replay of horrific events-not yet fully understood
  8. Compensatory (what is needed for wholeness; another side of personality)
  9. Reflects ego state (roof falling in)
  10. Making dreamer aware of emotions not fully experienced
  11. Vehicle for unexplainable phenomenon

  Henri BergsonPart One

According to Henri Bergson, “Stored memories aspire to the light, but do not even try to rise to it…they know that I, as a living and acting being, have something else to do…but suppose that I am asleep. Then these memories…have raised the trap door which has kept them beneath the floor of consciousness, arise from the depths; they rise, they move, they perform in the night of unconsciousness a great danse macabre. They rush together to the door which has been left ajar.”

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Eisley Quote

Published February 3, 2016 by Nan Mykel

black_background_with_stars_557408Altho the subject matter may be sobering, the writing is so beautiful that I love it, from The Invisible Pyramid: 

“Beginning on some winter night the snow will fall steadily for a thousand years and hush in its falling the spore cities whose seed has flown. The delicate traceries of the frost will slowly dim the glass in observatories and all will be as it had been before the virus wakened. The long trail of Halley’s comet, once more returning will pass like a ghostly matchflame over the unwatched grave of the cities. This has always been their end, whether in the snow or in the sand.”

Dialoging with Myself: Blogs

Published February 1, 2016 by Nan Mykel

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Why Blog?
Originally it was to publicize my books.
How is that going?
December’s profits were $3.18.
Wow, you won’t have to worry about income tax.
I’m spread too thin.
Did you really think people were going to read about Downs?
I guess at the time they need it they dont think of blogs.
And Incest?
At least I had my say. Repeating what’s in my book is dumb.
So, you can abandon two of your pages?
Yeah, and the “My Books” page. I mention them in the profile.
So after all that work you’re going to euthanize 3 pages?
No, just let them hibernate for a decade or two.
Ahem. How old did you say you are?
Eighty…Why?

Our Shadow Selves and Guns

Published January 18, 2016 by Nan Mykel

Carl Jung’s “shadow” concept –the part of us we reject, deny and project onto others–would appear to contain in addition to traits we are ashamed of,  also traits and beliefs that are unconscious, leading to mistakenly motivated beliefs and actions. .  I know that’s a mouthful, but for example, evolution’s kinship selection seems to underly prejudice which we deny and are unaware of.

Strongly held drives and unconscious emotional beliefs can  can result in illogical decisions.  One such effect is associated with gun champions.   According to Shankar Vedantam, who painstakingly researched and published  The Hidden Brain,  uivocally is no. “The issue is whether people who live in homes with guns are safer as a result of owning a gun, and the answer  is unequivocally no.” (p 235).   The combined risk of “accidents, suicide and domestic violence dwarfs the risk of homicide at the hands of a stranger.” (p 236).

“We certainly feel more control  when we have a gun in our posession, and it is easy to confuse the feeling of control with safety. Indeed, this is an unconscious bias in the hidden brain….” p 237

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