From Fallout: A Survivor Talks to Incest  Offenders (And Others), by moi.IS THIS YOU?  It appears that males, with their testosterone, macho culture and possible genetic influences, may be reluctant to disclose that they have been abused.  I realize now that admitting that they have been damaged  by sexual abuse is tantamount to admitting vulnerabilty,  a trait not in keeping with the offender’s self image. (p 23)