Very educational. Thanks to bellibone’s Afterward blog (have I got it right?)
The first three categories are defined in term of whom the folks in that category want to go to bed with. The final category is about who the folks there want to go to bed as even when they go to bed alone.
First of all, I have been in many support group meetings and only rarely, believe it or not, does the subject of bedroom sex come up. It is simply so far off topic that we rarely venture there.
And I have never seen it hold the attention of the group more than briefly.
Questions of identity, of acceptance or rejection, the practical problems of transition or of dealing with prejudice and discrimination, yes, those come up all the time. But rarely does erotic sex emerge as a topic.
It is impossible to predict from knowing that someone is trans the sort of person they will…
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